HUSBAND WIFE ROLE IN SUPPORTING JUDGE ON DHARMAYUKTI KARINI

HUSBAND WIFE ROLE IN SUPPORTING JUDGE ON DHARMAYUKTI KARINI

BY: Ny. Haryani MULARSIH SANTHOS, SH

A. INTRODUCTION

A wise man once said that behind the successful man there must be a great woman who supports it. This is presumably just right for fathers Judge who has successfully run kedinasannya task as well as possible, of course, certainly supported by the presence of a wife who is always faithful to accompany and support the official duties of the husband.

The judge's wife who joined in the organization DHARMAYUKTI Karini, has a major role in supporting all official activities of her husband. The role of the wives of Justice in containers DHARMAYUKTI Karini still awaited their work, particularly in helping her husband, that the Judges in realizing the vision of the Supreme Court of the Republic of Indonesia, the Indonesian judiciary to make a great justice.

B. SUCCESS HUSBAND WIFE IS A SUCCESS

Discussing the role of wife for the success of a husband, then presumably we still remember Chess Conduct which disemboyankan by the former Minister of Justice of the Republic of Indonesia, Mr. Ismail Saleh, SH, which states that any civil servant (PNS) in the Ministry of Justice, the Order Administration, Orderly Work discipline, Conduct Office and Orderly Household. Keermpat orderly chess are interrelated and influence each other in the execution of official duties of a civil service Civil (PNS), not only in the Ministry of Justice but has also been implemented throughout the Department and the Ministry at the time.

Although the concept of the former Minister of Justice of the Republic of Indonesia, orderly households defined as the last order of chess orderly, but true chess households will be the basis of a chess order others. In Islam, the role of a wife play a very important role in family life and a demanding role that is needed to select a good quality so that it can be a good wife. Understanding, perkataaannya and inclinations, all aimed at achieving keridho'an Allah., The Lord of Nature. When a wife that her husband happy in the end, it is to get keridho'an of Allah so that she (the wife) wishes to attempt it.

It is not easy to establish a family that is peaceful, secure, happy, prosperous. Necessary sacrifices and responsibilities of each party in the role in the family. Love, respect, loyal, respectful and so is mandatory that need to be nurtured both the husband and wife. By knowing and understanding their rights and obligations of both husband and wife are expected to facilitate family life based on the teachings of religion and law.

Knowingly or not, a wife becomes an important force in her husband's life, not only complementary, but it is a major determinant and has a major role in the success of her husband and her baby. History has recorded, behind the success and greatness of a man is always a faithful wife and helped sustain.

Therefore, the role of the wife becomes extremely vital to the success of her husband and has become a liability for the husband and the wife memulyakan love and dearest to the heart. There are a successful husband is almost impossible without the support of his beloved wife, and it is appropriate that the husband also supports activities that are positive wife.

Briefly mention of the obligation can presumably his wife, namely:

• Educate and raise children properly and responsibly;

• Respect and obey the husband within reasonable limits;

• Keeping the family honor;

• Maintain and organize the provision of a husband (living husband) to provide for the family;

• Set up and take care of the family household for the welfare and happiness of the family;

However, despite the wife alone has the obligation which is so big, it should also be realized that the wife also has the right, they are:

• Obtain an inner living and living is born of her husband;

• Receiving the dowry from the husband when married;

• Be treated humanely and without violence either by the husband in the household / domestic violence;

• Got care, protection and caring husband to avoid bad things;

C. ROLE AS FRIENDS WIFE / PARTNER ON

Definition of friends here have the same meaning their position. The wife can be a friend who can be consulted about the problems faced husband. So if the husband has a substantial problem, but the wife is able to provide a contribution to solve the perceived burden decreases husband. Besides, as a friend contain the notion so good listener. Over in the husband's office occasionally experienced dissatisfaction or less reassure treatment, aggravation-aggravation is brought home. Here the husband and wife can reduce the burden by listening to what her husband felt this attitude can give peace to the husband. This role can be diuraiakan as follows:

• Wife as a wise advisor

As an ordinary human husband can not escape from the mistakes that are sometimes not aware of. Well, here the wife should give guidance so that the husband can walk on the right path. In addition husband sometimes faced a thorny problem, the wife's advice is needed to resolve the problem.

• The wife as the husband driving

As a man, the husband is still always in need of progress in the field of work. Here the role of a wife can give encouragement or motivation husband. Husband was given the spirit in order to achieve a desired career path, of course, have to keep in mind its limitations. This means that wives should not be too ambitious to notch a career or husband, if her husband can not afford not forced, it will lead to negative things.

Position wife as a friend / partner life as the wife have the rights and obligations as a husband so it is not appropriate if the husband feels has more than his wife despite the teachings of Islam, a husband has the higher position given the responsibility as head of the household survival family life. As the wife of a judge, the responsibility of a wife is also increasing, especially if the husband has earned a structural position in his unit. And of course, as the wife of Judge, will automatically be incorporated in the membership DHARMAYUKTI Karini as an institution that serves as a container for accommodating the aspirations and all the activities of the wives of Justice, although in its membership also includes Women Judges, wife of the Judges, wife of the Functional Officer / Structural, The Employee and wife Employees in the Supreme Court, the General Courts, Religious Courts, Administrative Courts and Military Courts throughout Indonesia. But as the wife of the judge, of course, should be the driving force DHARMAYUKTI Karini activities.

D. DHARMAYUKTI Karini

As an institution that serves to accommodate the activities and aspirations of the judge's wife, the wife of an employee and an employee of the judiciary, Karini DHARMAYUKTI activity is one form silaturrahmi, but in the communication sessions must be maintained utterances well and respect each other. So noble activities in DHARMAYUKTI Karini, making it so vital existence of DHARMAYUKTI Karini in a judicial institution.

DHARMAYUKTI Karini the Women's Organization Justice was established on 25 September 2002 by decree of the Chairman of the Supreme Court No: KMA / 07 / SK / II / 2002 and consists of Women Judges, wife of the Judges, Wife Officials Functional / Structural, The Employee and wife Employees in the Supreme Court, the General Courts, Religious Courts, Administrative Courts and Military Courts throughout Indonesia, which has the composition of the management include: 1 Central Board (Level Center), 34 Regional Committee (provincial level) and 345 Managers branch (Level City / County).

DHARMAYUKTI Karini in performing their duties have the vision, namely: The realization of a single organization that can unite Mothers in the Supreme Court of the Republic of Indonesia and all Courts in Indonesia. The vision outlined in the form of Mission:

1. Establish integration in steps and movement activities.

2. Develop a sense of togetherness and strengthen the sense of unity and cohesion.

3. Increase the awareness of association for all members.

Vision and Mission is implemented in a variety of activities related to the duties of the judiciary. DHARMAYUKTI Karini also have the responsibility for the welfare of members, for example, the provision of assistance Scholarship Fund (BDBS) support the smooth process of learning the sons and daughters Employees in Supreme Court so as to improve their learning achievement in school.

In the future, presumably DHARMAYUKTI Karini bear an increasingly heavy burden with the development of information technology science. Each member is required "literacy" of information technology and does not stutter technology. It is closely related to the growth and development of children of each member, which is when our children grow up and the more intimate contact with technology, for example the use of gadgets, smartphones and so forth, did not rule out the possibility that the "virus" of technology will also be kta attacking children. Virus here is not only a virus that attacks the gadget or smartphone that we use, but also a cultural virus that is not in accordance with Indonesian culture.

For that presumably Karini DHARMAYUKTI members should always "update" to the development of information technology, so that it can serve as a "filter" or filter from all sorts of negative information that could endanger the lives of children and households. The need for the initiative of each member to get tembahan knowledge of information technology, considering at the moment the biggest threat to our sons and daughters are mainly derived from information technology.

For the husband, the figure of the wife that figure looks weak, it has tremendous energy because she is an inspiration boundless capable of delivering the husband to the level of success that cursory impossible dijangkaunya, and vice versa, and today, how much we hear great people which suddenly destroyed career and his future because of the tangled case law, ranging from infidelity, corruption to murder, it does not have to happen if behind them there is the figure of a great wife who is able to reconcile the eyes and soul of her husband.

Therefore, the members DHARMAYUKTI Karini must begin to realize how great a role in supporting the efforts of official duties husband and also guide the growth and development of their children. Without the role of a wife for her husband and a mother to her children, it is impossible husband and children will achieve success and success.

E. CONCLUSION

From the above description, presumably members of DHARMAYUKTI Karini, which partly is the wife of the judge, as part of the larger family of the Supreme Court of the Republic of Indonesia, more understanding and aware of its important role in the daily lives support the activities of the husband as a judge in order to achieve the vision of the Court Indonesian Supreme Courts which makes Indonesia the Great. The role of a wife and mother to his children become key success factors husband and children, in the absence of the wife, who accompanied her husband and mother to educate, guide and love his children, would not be possible husband would be successful in the tasks kedinasannya and it is impossible for their children to be able to reach his goals.

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